Paul Everett Swain III

Saving our sisters if you are a birth mom seeking adoption for your child. There are resources and there is help available to you. Don't use this attorney as a birth parent! They don't care about you. Just furthering the adoption lie. Even Good adoptions are trauma for baby! Preverbal trauma affects ...them forever! They want the purchase of your child to go through and they don't care about you or the long term affects of that on your natural child. Please please please do not give your baby away the vast majority of the, BPs state that if they had more HELP, more MONEY, they would keep their baby. THERE IS HELP. FAMILY PRESERVATION SHOULD ALWAYS BE TOP PRIORITY - if adoption was not a BUSINESS, you wouldn't have to pay thousands to do it. Please get help! They will not be giving it to you! They will pressure you and they will work with the APs. There is a significant conflict of interest between them and other attorneys in the area, and they will provide you with high pressure, inaffective counsel, and once you leave the adoption fog behind you will be void of a huge part of your spirit without that piece you were scared to keep! Please do not place your child. You CAN do this and there IS help and support out there for you! These people were working with my APs attorney as they are friends outside of work! They never supported me or helped when I said I didn't want to go through with the adoption and I just wanted my daughter back! They treated me like I was a horrible person and pressured me with PROVEN FALSE claims of it being trauma to my baby who already had suffered preverbal trauma from being taken from her natural mother at birth! They didn't care that the APs had LIED AND FINESSED ME, coercing and BLACKMAILING me into finalizing - they made sure I knew I stood no chance so that the purchase of my baby would go through. They didn't even CALL my phone at finalization when they found that my signing of our Paca wasn't even enough, they EMAILED me like this is 2002 and when I didn't reply they finalized without his signature. He is friends with another adoption attorney outside of the professional force who happened to represent my APs so go figure! Disgusting. They push these lies to help facilitate the sale of babies. They never gave me alternative choices! They never made me feel confident or comfortable and they didn't care that I wasn't. The adoption industry is disgusting in their pushing of this false view of it. OPEN ADOPTION IS NOT LEGALLY ENFORCEABLE. THEY WILL TRY TO ACT LIKE IT IS BUT IT IS A JOKE.