My wife's attorney convinced us/her to agree to a plea deal then informed her she was going to work for DA"s office next week.

I don’t see a question here. If she agreed to the deal, it really doesn’t matter that her attorney went to work for the DA a week later.

Will i see more jail time? And how much time am i likely to serve ?

It all depends on many circumstances. Get a lawyer to help increase your chances of not being jailed.

Do I need a lawyer to file a emergency order for custody??

Yes you need a lawyer aas emergency’s require special paperwork and skills.

My 17 year old daughter was picked up on a driveby shooting warrant can the police talk to her without a parent being present?

Yes they can. Better get her an attorney.

What to do ?

Follow the other attorneys’ advice herein as they are correct.

When it comes guardian ship What are the laws?

It all depends what your papers say.

Can I obtain juvenile records for my incarcerated daughter because the lawyer she has is doing nothing . She gave me POA?

Unfortunately, without a private attorney, you won’t get anywhere.

My minor sons juvenile probation officer has been discussing his case with a family friend who in turn has been talking to ...

If you don’t have an attorney, you will most likely lose.

This is very confusing. An attorney can sort all this out.

What are the harassment and stalking laws in oklahoma? And what procedures besides protective order can we take to prevent harm?

You can file for a protective order. See the court clerk