Since it is her home, no you can't record. If you were out in public, then you could record.

Am I entitled to know information about my children.

She does not have to tell you about the medical although she should. By statute, you are entitled to school and medical records.

How do i apply for grandparent visitation

This Is a very complex area of the law. Contact an attorney.

When a mom is being arrested for a very old ticket & her child is with her, what happens to the child if mom is taken to jail?

They usually would rather place the child with family instead of putting the child in the shelter.

Can I get sole custody of my 3 and a half year old daughter whose father hasn't seen her in 16 months and moved no contact info?

It sounds like you would get sole custody based on the info herein.

If I have a failure to appear in norman oklahoma will I be arrested .I go into court today March 2nd for an walk through.

Technically yes but you will be released once you post the bond.

Can a non custodial parent who has supervised visitation due to drug abuse claim a child for food stamps and TANF?

It happens all the time. Callbthe DHS fraud hotline

How can a court case with a guilty conviction of child abuse not be found?

You may contact OSBI or go to the courthouse and ask for assistance.

How old does a child have to be in order to make a decision on who they want to live with in Oklahoma

The age is 12 in Oklahoma, but speak with an attorney about the law.

What charges am I possibly facing?

You probably need a criminal and civil lawyer.