How do my husband and I sign over our legal rights and custody to their paternal grandparents

The other attorney's statements herein are correct.

What are the steps to filing for harassment

The steps are to file a petition for a VPO.

I'm married to a us citizen. We have decided to get divorced but haven't filed yet. Can I buy a house in my home country?

It's generally marital property if bought during the marriage unless separate funds were used to purchase it.

How do I fight back against a VPO that was falsely filed?

With all due respect, you really need an attorney for the divorce and the VPO.

If my mother passed away and was receiving back child support from my biological father, do I have any right to his 'arrears'?

If there is an order that was entered before you were 18, then maybe if the order is less than 5 years old. Call an attorney

Is it possible to increase the monthly amount of restitution for child support arrears?

Yes based on a change in circumstance.

Can I obtain emergency guardianship of my cousins baby that is now in the custody of the state?

Be sure to give DHS notice. Hire an attorney.

Apply for a public defender. If ineligible, he will have to represent himself.

While I'm pregnant do I have to right to choose whose in the room during my appointment and labor?

You need parental consent and an emancipation.

What chance does my ex friend have f getting unsupervised visitation?

Contact an attorney because your ex husband may be the legal father and if so, the guy wanting visitation now will have no shot.