What can I do?

You better hire a private attorney.

Well I have a situation here.....my fiance`s mom said she ordered our daughters birth certificate

Only the DA can file charges. You can file a police report but I'm not even sure she can even get the birth certificate.

Can my petition for divorce be dismissed if I got intoxicated and had sex with husband once.

No. You can still get a divorce if you are not pregnant.

Is there any action I can take against a lawyer or medical provider?

Not likely to prevail on a lawsuit.

Why is there a civil disposition docket after a case was dismissed/settled?

Check with the court clerk and/or the other party to the suit.

How do I remove my self from my step sons birth certificate and have no obligation to my ex ?

Follow Mr Waggoner' advice herein. He is correct.

Yes it's normal. The kids were asleep but present. Yes this will affect a custody case. Contact an attorney.

Will i owe the noncustodial parent his arrears once i drop child support?

It depends whether the arrears have been waived.

If I live in Muskogee,and I want​to move to tahlequah

Check with the DA. Don't just move without giving notice.

If my kids are in dhs custody can i sign my rights to my grandma to get my kids and will it drop my case

DHS will determine where to place your kids and whether the case will be dropped. Then it's up to the court.