Can i request the court to dismiss child support arrears, of a year back support, that were given to me after paternity was est?

It is owed and there is nothing you can do about it.

Where do I go to get papers for my ex to sign his parental rights before my daughter is born?

You can't do that until after the baby is born. You will ne dnto file a paternity action.

Who is responsible for foreclosure debt ?

It all depends if it's a marital debt. Name and title do not control how a debt will be dealt with in a divorce. Perhaps he needs a new attorney.

Can I move out of state with my children??

You need a lawyer to help you. Oklahoma should have jurisdiction.

My husband died a few months ago and I'm the beneficiary on his 401k

You better get an attorney to keep her from stealing.

I want to know what my options are with my custody case

It does not appear that OK has jurisdiction still.

How do i get a court order to get married in oklahoma if im under 16?

You need parental consent and a judge to emancipate you.

Midemeanor outraging public descency charge with 5yr defered sentence, is this a legitament sentence for this charge?

Yes it's legit. You committed a sex crime.

What can be done about breach of "Professional Ethics" that most likely cost me my custody case?

A letter to ill not get you anywhere. You would have to file a formal complaint. It's b st to find a new attorney.

They can but hopefully they won't. Good luck.