Where do I begin? Will he have legal rights? Will he HAVE to be added tot the birth certificate? How much will this cost?

You begin by filing a paternity case in the state where the child customarily resides. Your first (small) hurdle will be having him served with...

Your question is focused on the "rights" of the step-mother, but I think you shoulkd be more concerned with the requirements of the medical...

I don't know what to do about non-payment of child support

You should get an attorney and file a Motion for Contempt for his willful disregard of the Court's order.

How come it is a well-know fact that OOP's are abused by women and yet the laws are not changed to protect against it?

I have wondered this same thing, but the law remains the same.

If I pay extra on his child support will it cause his child support amount to change or make him loose his disability ?

If the amount of his child support seems unfair, you might help him by paying a (Tennessee) lawyer to review his case. If he is not too proud to...

Is this considered contempt of court?

You should get a family law attorney immediately and see about filing a Motion to Change Custody and for Contempt. In the hearing his support will...

What can I do if anything to get paid for the time that was already approved And can they work us that many days and hours

As an assistant manager, you are likely an exempt employee. Is that, in fact, the case? Different rules apply to exempt and non-exempt employees....

Would I be able to move?

You need to make your lawyer aware of this situation at once and follow his/her advice. Please do not post questions on Avvo about a case for...

Do I have a case for full custody?

I believe that a child custody lawyer could win full custody for you based on the facts you have stated. You should make an appointment to speak...

Does the state of Tennessee modify an existing support order if the parent whose supposed to be paying has had 2 more children?

This will not happen automatically, but the parent paying the support can make a motion to modify to have this done. ALL of the children of the...