Can I get visitation rights to see my grandsons 9 and 4 since their dad is in jail?

You need to establish grandparent visitation in domestic relations court.

I am married to this man that's and the army he has cheated on me can he go to jail for that

Unlikely unless he's an officer and "fraternizing" with subordinates. Use the internet to find a divorce lawyer.

My husband got a misdeamenor for a hit and run and recieved one year probation (has to be good for one year)

If the lawyer gave you bad advice about getting kicked out of the military, you need to file a post-conviction proceeding to undo the plea.

I bonded out conspiracy to commit murder my lawyer said I'm not indicted but before I got out they were trying to enhance my c

You need to ask your own lawyer this.

Two years with a case,the defendant was found not guilty/can we seek relief?

You need a tort lawyer in MD. Probable cause usually is all it takes for the state to defeat a civil case. Withholding evidence, however, is a...

Is someone under an order for "lifetime sex offender" registry in NY state required to register when moving to new state?

Yes; sex offenders on registration are required to register in any state they move to.

Chances of getting convicted

A witness saying you assaulted her is not hearsay. People get convicted on one witness testimony all the time. Get a lawyer.

What can I do with his belongs?

Find a friend of his to take his stuff off your hands.

Google says: http://leg1.state.va.us/cgi-bin/legp504.exe?000+cod+46.2-878

I recieved a check for a job that I agreed to do. The check was2,400 it bounced can i go to jail 4 this?

Your query doesn't make sense. You had a check sent to you that bounced. Why would you be the one to go to jail?