Was my call recorded? Can they pursue this?

It is possible to be arrested. However, it is likely that it could be sorted out in court if you were arrested.

Does this not violate my rights per Speedy Trial, since I never agreed to that long or never was even asked or notified beforeha

Defense continuances will toll speedy trial, and you are usually subject to whatever the docket schedule is.

What can happen if a 17 and a 35 year old are together?

The answer to this question hangs on what you mean by "together."

Can police tell I'm on probation from my address?

It is possible for law enforcement to see if someone at a particular address is on probation.

From the information you have given, and without looking at the sentencing order, it appears that it is saying your sentence was actually carried...

Is this a Domestic 3rd enhanced due to a prior? If so, the prosecutors office has 60 days to file the felony charges under rule 8.6. If no charges...

Is it legal when you have 3 murder suspects in the same case that 2 of the suspects be housed together?

It could cause some issues, but is certainly not illegal.

Will he get any of the money back that he posted from his pocket. I know not the fee, but the actual bond?

What your husband gets back from the bondsman will be set out in the contract he signed with the bondsman.

Do i have a case for self defense if my 25 yr old step daughter slapped me , so i showed her how it felt by slapped her back.

This does not sound like self defense. However, other defenses may exist. Contact a criminal defense attorney and speak about your case.

As stated, it really just goes to the weight of the evidence.