You need to call your attorney or get one. Can't teach you the law by email.

Changing my daughters last name

No you can't just hang her name. It has to be by adoption. But this will require serving her bio Dad so we will need an address for service

What can be done if the DA nor the arresting office doesn't have paperwork?

You need to hire a criminal attorney immediately who can move for immediate hearing.

If my kids father comes to get them to spend time with him for a few hours can he keep them an not return them we have no court

Your attorney needs to file for sole custody before he gets out or you have no protection.

What is the charge for 1st. Attempted for a first affender.

You need to hire a capital murder criminal defense attorney.

How to file for termination of fathers rights

Your attorney can file for adoption and to termin ate bio Dad's rights at the same time. Has bio Dad ever paid child support?

How do I find a lawyer that can operate in multiple states?

Better solution is 2 lawyers so that you don't have to pay airfare, mileage, rental car, hotel and meals for one.

Sole custody eliminates your husband having to pay child support to his ex wife but will begin or increase any child support she has to pay him. ...

How long?

No residency requirement in LA. Merely must be domiciled here with intention to stay.

Your lawyer should go to all three hearings, not just two and go to Juvenile court proceedings also. The issues, evidence & testimony will overlap.