If you have no prior criminal history at all and are never questioned or approached by police or detectives and then you move ?

Ask your son to give permission to his attorney to freely discuss the case with you.

Will I do any jail time for aggravated assault if this is my first offense?

The circumstances will be considered. Hire a criminal attorney.

Do I have to worry about my ex getting my child at all?

You need to hire a family law attorney to seek supervised visitation. It is possible if his parental rights have not been terminated that he will...

I need to know what to expect with my son?

Get an attorney and hire a firearm expert to testify that the gun is not functional and your attorney needs to investigate lunacy defense.

You are asking for impossible speculation. Call your son's public defender or get him a private attorney.

How?can they arrest me on a misdemeanor theft by shop lifting then 87 days later arraigned me on a felony charge

You were arrested by a cop with a high school education and arraigned by a lawyer with a law degree

My friend was frame for computer theft ?

Yes if the judge sets a bond. No if the judge does not set a bond. The Judge will likely set a bond. Your friend needs a lawyer.

My ex will allow my husband to adopt our son if his child support goes away. Is this possible?

Absolutely. Hire an adoption attorney.

Permanent Spousal support?

Due to the short duration of your marriage and her being on disability prior to marriage it is unlikely that you will have to pay periodic spousal...

Will I owe the state money they paid out for helping?

If the state hasn't filed anything yet, the kids are all over 18 and have graduated from high school, then you are home free.