The inherited house is his separate property. However you have a reimbursement claim for one half of the principal pay down on the mortgage. Hire...

He isn't just "talking" to a lawyer, he has hired one and is filing for custody. You need to do the same thing NOW.

Your license will be suspended automatically for 6 months if you don't request a hearing.

Get the handwriting expert NOW, hire a commercial litigation attorney and make criminal complaint of fraud and forgery yo your sheriff.

After a Protective Order has been granted or a domestic violence conviction obtained, he would have to undergo a 26 week intervention program and...

Will an answer in holding post pone the trial?

Nothing is postponed if you don't pay the filing fee.

How can I change a toddlers last name if the father is gone and not in his life?

I doubt a name change will be granted unless you file for a subsequent spouse to adopt.

Child support decrease ?

Get a signed dated letter from your employer that it is permanent.

Print something from the internet showing the difference in price when you go to court and bring your checkbook. That's a ridiculous charge.

What to do about my ex?

Contact the school and get his own invitation to graduation. If they won't give it to him, get it in writing then hire an attorney and go anyway.