Agree that it is time to engage counsel and prepare for the very likely separation action that is coming. See my legal guide for the basics on...

How can I go live with my grandparents?

I would encourage you to share your concerns with a trusted adult. It sounds like your grandparents would be a good choice. You can also talk to...

Can I fly with my dependent military Id even though I am illegal?

Here is what I found on the TSA website: https://www.tsa.gov/travel/security-screening/identification

Yes depending on your clearance you may have an obligation to report this to your security manager right now.

Can I sue the military for refusing to correct my military records related to retirement?

You might need to submit an application to correct your records with your service's review board agency. Get on it sooner than later since it can...

What do I need to have so that I can make medical/financial decisions for my disabled adult son?

Need to file a petition for guardianship in your county court. Most probate attorneys will help with this work.

They can hold you past your ETS for a court-martial. Short of that they typically will have to let you ETS. You should get TDS involved or call a...

SSN is not required to set-up a trust unless it will start paying immediate distributions, which is unlikely.

File a complain on my commander ?

You can file an Article 138 complaint against a commander. It goes to the next higher commander. Recommend speaking with an attorney before you...

Grounds for patient abandonment ?

Lacking enough detail here to understand the question. Are you a nurse or a doctor that had been working in a medical practice?