Question: how can I know if a divorce was put on hold as I don't have an attorney.

You can talk to her attorney. Go to http://jococourts.org and put in the case number for the pleadings served on you, under the civil option/....

Do I need to get a Divorce?

Kansas does recognize common law marriages. You should speak to an attorney to determine if the facts of your case would result in a court likely...

How hard would it be for my sons dad to get shared custody

I am unsure of the facts. Is there a court order that says its a 50/50 deal? If yes, has that order been modified? If there is a 50/50 order and...

Should I sign them? And can I without us both present? What if he changes something before filing?

It is hard to answer the question because you don't say what type of divorce papers were sent to you. If there are no property or debts to...

Is there anything I can do or say to the judge that will stop all of this?

Is the judge willing to talk to the child in chambers? Has there been a limited home study on his parenting time? My guess is that you cannot...

What can be done to reverse the ruling

You need to contact a lawyer immediately. There are time deadlines that are fast approaching. An appeal can be filed, or a motion to modify or...

If I file a petition for summer visitation in Germany and specific times for contact, is this doable legally through mediation?

I doubt that the decree says the judge cannot modify the parenting plan in terms of custody, parenting time and child support. I would believe it...

Can the child's mother use behavior at school against me in court?

It depends on whether she talks all the time, or only after she spent the night with one of her parents. Pf the latter, then that parent has some...

How is health insurance added to child support? Do they just guess a portion, or is it the whole family plan amount?

I assume this is a Kansas case using Kansas law. I am not sure what the calculators are saying, if the calculators are both good ones, and what...

Yes, as long as the attorney is licensed to practice in Kansas. If the attorney isn't licensed to practice in Kansas, sometimes the Court will...