Most likely this will be reported and the PA can file a motion to revoke. I would contact you attorney hope for the best. Good luck.

When are my kids old enough to decide they don't want to go for a visitation without me being in contempt?

Mr. Hilton is right. Consult counsel ASAP as these are tricky cases at best.

What types of plea bargains may arise?

Seriously??? Hire counsel already. This is a very serious matter. Good luck.

I would agree with my colleague here. Get counsel to help ASAP.

What do I need to prepared to do/say during hearing? How much time do I have to speak during hearing/ do I bring evidence?

Well if you have 3 years to spare I will explain all about law, evidence etc. But if not then call counsel to help you ASAP.

This is a complicated area of the law. Please discuss all options with counsel as this forum is not flexible enough to meet your needs. Good luck.

Can my husband's name be added to my child's birth certificate?

Complicated answer but I would contact a family law attorney ASAP. Good luck.

Can 2 different counties charge you with the same charge?

Usually only one county will handle the incident, but if there are other items then it could involve other jurisdictions. Get counsel ASAP.

Can the police keep my fire arm even though no charges were brought against me

I agree with Mr. Hoyt. Go down in person and see what you can do. Good luck.

This is a serious charge and you should be talking to counsel in confidence about this matter. Good luck.