What can I do to speed things up or get him out he has a bond in the county they want him in but not in the county they have him

Hire counsel in the county where he is incarcerated and allow them to address the bond and final disposition.

What steps do I need to do to legally adopt my stepdaughter?

Hire an attorney for a step parent adoption.

Where do I go from here? I believe my daughter might also have been part of an illegal adoption

Have a Dna test performed to put your suspicions to rest.

I don't like to have this speeding on my driving record , and lawyer represent me

Hire an attorney and allow them to go to work. It happens.

I suppose you can apply but the tax authorities will likely require certain information.

Does a lawyer HAVE to send all the beneficiaries information regarding the value of the estate?

It is mandatory. No further words necessary but they are required to allow post of this response.

What happens to his family's benefits if he were to sponsor the family, and what solutions let him retain his benefits?

I seem to be confused as to why anything will change so long as citizenship does not change.

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Does filing a bankruptcy suspend/stay ALL pending litigation?

A bankruptcy does stay litigation or execution of judgments.

Can i sue them for the stress and lies and harassment...just to make them stop and if I loose my job the lose of wages

Unlikely. You must first prove actual damages before punitive or special damages will arise.

Why is this ticket so stupid expensive

Hard to say without knowing more about your driving record and if others were involved.