And intestate probate estate may be administered by whoever the court appoints put your hat in the ring and see what happens

What are my options and what defense, if any, should I adopt to argue my case for reinstatement?

You would save yourself a lot of trouble if you hire an experienced attorney to address each of these matters.

Can I sue him for back child support.

Generally no child support is only awarded from the date of filing

Can I sue for harassment of 5 years

That is a difficult question to answer because I don't know the totality of the circumstances the normal presumption in American courts is the...

CAN I FILE A LAW SUIT

Of Course you can sue but you really need to look at the total damages in this matter before you do so

What can I do?

If you don't hire counsel there isn't much to do.

Stepparent Adoption

You should address paternity. If natural father isn't interested then file the adoption.

What type of attorney can help? Bankruptcy/Debt or Real Estate? Also is there a way that I can negotiate to clear my name?

A bankruptcy attorney is required if you need protection from the debt and have other debts that are unmanageable

Is it a common practice the spouse to wave her rights at a property

Not only is it customary it is mandatory

Will we have to open estate in Fort Meyers? How do we name an administrator of estate for our father without a will?

The probate estate should be opened in the county of his residence