Are there any tax implications with the proceeds of the Annuity going to my living Trust rather than to me if I outlive my Mom?

Perhaps. Check with the annuity provider and confirm they will pay it over to your trust. No tax issue regardless of whether you want an individual...

Are there papers that I can find online that we can fill out to make this process easier? Will we need an attorney?

I'm not sure you'll find any firms requiring anyone to adopt you. Hopefully he is on board with this decision.

How long can a divorce last. What are my options

Difficult to answer without knowing the case in total. File a motion for a hearing if you are without counsel and see how the court rules.

Can i get my original birth name back and change ss number if so how much

Name change is available in your local circuit court. I'm not certain anyone can change a social.

Should i avoid signing everything untill she is availible,

An attorney will be appointed to you if you are under allegations of incapacity. If someone is presenting you with documents you don't agree with,...

When there's a lawsuit doesn't the spouse have to sign something when a lawyer is hired

An individual can employ counsel. His settlement should be addressed in your dissolution as a marital asset.

Sure. It will be a marital asset to divide.

How do I compel the trial Court to stay the proceedings pending an interlocutory appeal of a denial of a Motion for arbitration

File a motion with the court and notice it up.

Can I still fight the ticket? If so what are my chances of getting the ticket dismissed?

I always encourage clients to hire counsel and allow an attorney to do the job.

Is this a potential lawsuit?

Unlikely. Their conduct can be sold to be an attempt to broaden your opportunities.