You need to an appointment with a family law attorney in your county. You have too many questions for this forum.

During my tpr (termination of parental rights) hearing I did not have a lawyer present and verbally requested one and denied

You need to obtain a consult with a local attorney that deals regularly with the Juvenile Court in your area.

What does "father shall provide the transportation with respect to his exercise of custody" mean?

I have put your topic in the correct category.

Changing my sons last name to my married name?

You may petition the court for a change of name for the child, or alternatively, you and your husband could consider a stepparent adoption. You...

What do I need to do if my sister wants me to adopt her unborn child?

Speak to an adoption lawyer in your county immediately. This is not a self-help category.

Will I lose rights to see my grandkids if my daughter's rights are revoked and my grandkids are adopted by their stepmom?

The short answer is yes you would not have a "right" anymore. Most parents are fine with grandparents that are good to the children. However, I...

How do I get my exs name off my daughters birth certificate?

Once your fiance becomes your husband, you can contact a lawyer about a Step-parent adoption.

What are the steps for a step parent adoption if my childrens father volunteerily signs over his rights?

If the father of the children is willing to sign the consent, this is the least expensive of all adoptions. As to the steps required, you really...

Previously signed over rights before tpr trial. About to give birth to new baby can they take him?

As with these type of questions, there may be more to the story. However, with the limited facts you have given, if they utilized your consent for...

Can my fiance adopt my daughter without us being married?

Not very difficult, but you need to contact an adoption lawyer in your county, to give him or hear all the facts of your specific case. By the...