As you pointed out, she is the personal representative, this would imply that she could sign for issues regarding properties held in the Estate.

I would suggest you call around in Forsyth County. This service is no replacement for boots on the ground where you live. Good luck

You need to consult with a local atty and make sure you follow all the rules in attempting a non probate transfer, like T.O.D. Deeds.

You need a lawyer in the county where he lived on the date of his passing. This lawyer could assist you in getting things straightened out as to...

You really need to contact someone in the county where your grandmother lived when she passed away. Another way to handle that would be for you to...

As counsel suggested, its the one that represents the personal representative or administrator that gets paid from the estate.

Was the Will probated with the court? You need counsel, local counsel, to help you with any questions.

You need to contact an independent atty to help you get the documents (trust agreement), etc that would help answer your questions. Missouri has a...

You can have a will but if he did a transfer on death deed (on the home) to someone other than you, the Will doesn't have effect on the home. You...

You need to retain counsel to determine if your dad put everything into the wife's name. If so, you might be out of luck.