How do I get my brother's ashes,large firearm collection and other assets out of his girlfriend's hands?

You should ask your lawyer about a discovery of assets action against the woman.

My grandma left in her will that I can remain living in the house pending it’s sale.

You need to contact your own attorney to deal with the estate attorney. Or you need to make them prove to you that you have to be out. Either...

Should I pay my Landlords Daughter?

You need to contact the attorney for the personal representative and find out what they want you to do.

How do I become my wife's legal guardian in the state of missouri?

As counsel stated, you would be better off if she would give you a DPA. If she won't you'll have to open a Guardianship proceeding in front of the...

Question pertaining to medicaid, nursing home, and real estate

Well, you didn't say how long mom's been gone. If no estate has been opened in a year since date of death, healthnet (MO) might not have a claim...

Depending on whether brother had kids or wife, you might or not be heir at law. Consult a good probate lawyer to help you figure stuff out.

What can be done so she can keep her home?

Was the grandmother's will probated? Is the estate still open? After 10 years? Who is on the Deed. I really believe that your friend needs to...

You need to have an attorney give you advice and help you draft the proper documentation.

Do i need a probate lawyer for a uncontested matter from my deceased sibling ?

We need to know what was uncontested to opine.

In a will pay all debts other than those secured by property passing outside of this will?

I agree with Mr. Gunthert that you need to contact a probate practitioner to answer your questions.