What do I do with my probation officer

Did you have a lawyer on your original case? If so, call them. You should also stay in contact with your PO.

What am I able to do about my Ex who hasn't done what the court ordered on the divorce decree about refinancing in his name?

You need to take him back to court where you got divorced. I don't know if that is Missouri or NC.

Do I need an attorney? If not, what type of paperwork do I need? Where can I get it?

This is not going to work. This is not a fill in blank deal. You need a lawyer to get the adoption done.

Is step mother responsible for health ins for husbands kid of 19 yrs old, not in college not doing anything

I don't understand your question. A step mother is not a party to your divorce. She can not be compelled to provide health insurance.

Filled Chapter 13 Bankruptcy and had to include Internet provider, is my service going to be disconnected or need to pay balance

Talk to your own attorney, that is why you hired him.

Do you guys know who has a marriage liscence on me it said on the missourimarriagesite that someonebuymarriagerecordonme

Go to the Boone county courthouse and see what you can find out in person.

I need a child support lawyer

Search for a local family law attorney by using the Find a Lawyer tab at the top of this page.

How do I go about getting a reducing of my child support payment.

Talk to a family law attorney. Search for one here on AVVO by using the Find a Lawyer tab at the top of this page. Many have free consultations.

Is there a link i can go to so i can file a pro se answer to child custody?

You need a lawyer. Your son is worth it.

Go to the courthouse where you got divorced or call up your old attorney.