I don't know how to ask this.

Certain actions can be charged at the state or federal level. Like Mr. Ivakhnenko said, you both need to hire criminal defense attorneys right away.

Yes, but you can also search the Missouri Court website, Case.net. Here is a link: https://www.courts.mo.gov/casenet/cases/nameSearch.do

Will I be charged with a felony?

Yes, you are very likely going to be charged with one or more felonies. Like the other lawyer who answered said, you should refrain from making any...

I really need help?

That's a pretty broad question. I will need more specifics to give an answer.