Do I have to allow the fathers girlfriend to excercise his visitation?

You should ask for the right of first refusal so that if he is not present then you will be able to refuse him visitation.

My ex is asking for child support to be reduce due to his decreased income and claim our daughter on his income tax.

you will want to have the Court order him to provide an accounting of what he has. You should hire an attorney to make sure he doesn't hide the...

Can I still act Pro Se before my attorney files his appearance ?

NO, you cannot correspond with opposing counsel while you are currently being represented, which it appears that you are.

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if the Judge determined that you violated a court order, they are entitled to attorney's fees pursuant to 508(b). As a result, you really need to...

If right of first refusal is not in my JPA can my ex say who can watch our children during my visitation time?

If its not in the JPA, then she cannot enforce a right of first refusal. if its not huge chunks of time (like more than 4 hours), you should be ok.

What papers do I need, for my soon to be ex husband, to sign saying he is not the biological father of my unborn child?

I agree with the above. I believe there is a form you can use, but its not online. check with vital records. Its a declaration or finding of...