If I'm charged with possession or paraphnilia does an officer have to write a citation staying that I'm charged with it?

Yes, they can add more charges at the court date.

My chances. Speeding tickets

You need an attorney. You are at risk of having your license suspended.

Unproductive stop

I wouldn't be too worried about this.

Probably not but if you are you will need an attorney. This is not something you want on your record.

What is the law on an unproductive stop in shoplifting ?

What is an unproductive stop? When you stop someone and realize they didn't steal anything?

Same thing and an order of protection is the proper term.

Is there anyway someone can come to Illinois to help me get my record expunged? I heard it cannot be done! Please help me?

It depends on what your sentence was. Only supervision can be expunged.

I'm wondering, I'm on bail, and I'm living at my parents, can I ask the judge to revoke my bail and send me to jail?

Was money posted for bond or is it an ibond?

Can I be charged if caught with a controlled substance but not arrested or given a ticket

Yes, you can be indicted without being arrested.

I was arrested at the age of 17 years old for retail theft, the amount was over 400, how can I get this lowered to a Misdemeanor

The first thing you need to do is hire an attorney. You definitely cannot handle this yourself.