Try emailing or calling the VAWA Help Line, and/or sending a letter to USCIS to request an extension of your prima facie determination.

It means they are claiming they approved your case, or that they have denied your case, but as you state, they actually have not done any such...

What does it mean to "apply home duties"? Perhaps you need to file a motion to reopen your removal case if you were not subject to being removed...

All of the acts of abuse are in furtherance of divorce proceedings. It may not be a great case, but there are plenty of lawyers who can help you,...

No. The order is stayed right now, for the duration of time it takes for the court of appeals to uphold the decision or to reverse the decision.

Your immigration status in Canada should have no impact on getting the EB2 NIW approved. You can request a change of consulates if NVC chooses one...

Yes, your husband's employer can file an H4 extension while your application for change of status is pending. They probably will not send an RFE...

Could be a mistake. Could be you have been recommended for approval but your case is on hold. There is no way to know.

An interview on the asylum application? On the I-140/485? Are you a U.S. citizen, perhaps you have considered filing for him? See a lawyer.

Yes, if you are married, you should indicate as such with your consular processing forms. Especially if you want your spouse to immigrate with you.