See a criminal defense attorney. Generally speaking to a woman on the street is not a crime.

Try contacting the U.S. embassy in Amman and see if they could help you.

If the evidence on file is sufficient to issue an approval, it may be approved. If not, it will be denied.

You should go to the office where you live. Yes you should return within six months.

If your work permit expires in September, you can file for a new one now, with your application for adjustment of status.

If she was outside of the U.S., she may have abandoned her status or she may have interrupted the continuity of her presence. She may not have been...

No, you cannot change status from ESTA to any other nonimmigrant status.

There is no automatic extension if you are filing in a different category.

You cannot get the H4 at the border. You would need to apply for it at the US consular office.

Yes, you should follow up with USCIS to get yourself scheduled.