It is up to the government of Jordan whether to allow that.

No, but you should submit your IRS transcripts to show that they are legitimate.

A person can be denied admission for "reason to believe" they were involved in narcotics trafficking. Yes, you must contact an attorney.

Air travel is not recommended for a person with no lawful status in the U.S.

Go for the green card. H1b is a lottery and it is temporary.

Yes, your case is outside of the normal processing time. But the fact they sent you an RFE shows that they are working on it.

You do not need to include unborn children in your application. That includes fetuses that were murdered.

A permanent resident, if they meet all of the other requirements, can file for naturalization 90 days before five years from the date they received...

I suppose you could. The only possible harm is that you may have to send them again and they expire in 60 days anyway, so you would have to retake...

There is no set fees for consultation or for work per hour for lawyers in the U.S.