I 130 petition

The application process is completely different than the process for your wife. Your list of documents is not correct. You are filing a "stand...

What can I say to the Consular to release the K1 visa that has been approved since 03/28/12. each time he get a different answer

Hire a lawyer who can review the 221(g) and determine what is missing. Moreover you need to write to CIS to have them revalidate the visa.

Want to travel go back home when i have my I-360 case on pending . Want to know if it ok and come back safely

You will need some kind of a visa or other document that lets you reenter the U.S., if you want to return to the US.

I-485 with asylum

It can take between six months and 10 years.

The purpose of your trip and your ability to pay are the most important. Paying back medicaid will likely make no difference. If there are...

While on GC, can you extend your overseas stay beyond 6 months?

She will need proof of why she stayed so long overseas.

Can I wait abroad and re-enter once I get my EAD?

If you leave the US during a request for extension of status, you do abandon the request.

Re i-90 if I can not find original paperwork where can I look up city where I filed for adjustment of status?

You could file a FOIA request, or you could just guess. Also try checking the back of the card it may show where the case was approved.

I-797 valid till June 2015, passport valid till Nov 2013, should passport be valid till end of I-797 for stamping?

Yes.

I am on a J1 visa as an intern, my internship was for 12 monts, my DS expires in JAN 2013 Can I travel until FEB 2013 within US?

If your internship expires January 1st, you can stay until January 31st.