DACA - I meet all requirements for DACA but I have been in legal status since June 15, 2012 under F1 status. OPT expires 05/7/13

No, you need to have lived in the US since June 15, 2007.

Not declaring one of the family member in I-589, after creating affidavit and published add in news paper that no relationship

It is an omission, not a false statement. It seems to be not material, but that depends on what the asylum claim was about.

Pls.help me to answer my question im going to travel and my GREENCARD IS EXPIRED but i have a extention for one year.and they

No, it is not safe without a stamp.

English test passed but decision can not yet be made ?

It is normal that a supervisor must review the case before a final decision is made.

You need to show all of this to an attorney. You also should get any criminal charges resolved before you leave the U.S.

My wife tried to utilize VAWA to obtain her green card status but it did not work so She ran off to US ARMY.

Attempting to comply with the law and immigrate legally is not an act which merits reporting to anyone.

Can I apply for H1B for Freelance/Part Time/a company with only three employees (including myself) ?

Freelance is no good, you are not an employee then. Small employers are allowed to file H1b's. Part time employment is allowed for H1b.

Claiming H-1B cap exemption using previously approved(but not used and later withdrawn ) H-1B petition

If the 2009 H1b was withdrawn, you cannot use it for any purposes at all.

Would a separation date on the divorce decree affect my citizenship interview ?

Yes, this can seriously cause problems at the interview and you should have it corrected.

Apply for new F-1 visa one month before current F-1 visa expires.

1. Yes, you can do that. 2. Yes, if you have a multiple entry F1 which is not expired and you are reentering before your OPT expires.