There are so many legal issues that you have raised that I suggest you contact an immigration lawyer for a full consultation and individual advice...

There are none. Just submit proof you were together in person and the Utah wedding certificate and that should suffice.

Hire a lawyer to un-expunge the records and get new, certified copies for your interview. That's what you need.

Each state has it's own rules. You can simply apply. Or you can try to find a local immigration attorney and try to find out what the local...

They mean the same thing. You aunt needed to submit something, she submitted it, and now the embassy is going to take a look at what she submitted.

There is no change of status from ESTA to any nonimmigrant visa status at all since the condition for admission without a visa is that you cannot...

One would have to see what CIS sent to know how to respond. I have never heard of such thing . Perhaps your spouse withdrew the i-130 and not you.

USCIS will determine where to schedule the interview. It seems to me that they will disregard your request. But you could always write them and...

You can find another employer to file for you to port to them while you are waiting for the H1b extension of status.

There are a very slight risk CIS will find you abandoned your status. I have not seen CIS raise this to deny applications before, even if people...