Workers' compensation- from the employer's side

Yes but if it is frivolous it will not be difficult to defend. Ask your insurance company if a a claim is filed.

Can she take personal injury sattlment from me?who is going to get child placement and child custody?

You should consult with a personal injury and a divorce attorney.

How can I retract a statement without consequences?

You need to get a criminal defense attorney as soon as possible.

Is there a time limit for filing a lawsuit against a doctor for malpractice?

Yes there is a time limit. Consult with a med mal attorney in your area as soon as possible.

Can I get paid for my lost wages when all charges are dropped

Consult a local attorney. You need to have a specific discussion of the charges, disposition and your employment situation with an attorney.

Do you think I would have a case I would like them to haft to take responsibilty for what they did

I am sorry to hear this. You certainly had a horrible and tragic experience. Have you records reviewed to see if you have a case.

Do I have a case that is worth pursuing?

I doubt it. Unless you suffered some quantifiable damages as a result of the improper access I do not see a case here.

What can I do? Can I sue them?

Consult a local personal injury attorney. Records and pictures will help.

What to do to check if this is the reason for my family's illness?

Go to the doctor to get diagnosed treated and and an opinion on causal connection. If your doctor thinks this has caused you harm then consult a...

Don't worry about it. The word is out that insurance companies don't want to pay claims. I think the insurance industry is also on to the fact that...