What should I do in my situation my ex is taking me to court for divorce and custody

The obvious answer is go and hire an attorney to represent you. He can ask for whatever he likes but that doesn't mean he will get it. Thus...

I don't have a lawyer, we had the same one and he couldn't talk to me. So it sounds like I have no recourse in this matter?

You did not have the same lawyer. He had one and you had none. You apparently knew about the 401k before the judgment was entered. Like the...

My divorce was final in Oct 2015, was wondering if I could go back on my ex and get half of his 401K?

If he received 401k as part of dissolution judgment, that is probably the end of it. If no mention of account made, different story. Should be...

What do I really owe?

How much you owe depends upon how much the court orders say you are supposed to pay and how much you actually paid. Difference is what you owe...

He states I have to come pick them up on Monday..I want to know what is right please

(1) The word "custody" full or otherwise is no longer being used. (2) If there is a schedule already in place, it should be followed until...

Don't know what "papers" you are referring to, but if you have documents that help establish the truth of the allegations you make, attach them as...

Can I sue employer for child support since this is the reason why I stopped getting support?

You can sue the employer and win only if the employer improperly failed to honor a withholding notice served on it. If a claim has been filed...

How do I stop the payments from coming out or how can I get proof to take to my jobs payroll dept. so they can stop it?

Stopping the withholding from your paycheck is not automatic. You must send a copy of the court order to your employer. Realive it may take a...

Can you help us write up a contract? Or help us find attorneys for this purpose?

There are attorneys well versed in reproductive law. You can find them through the Internet or local bar associations. We can't make such ...

VA Disability Comp. -Is this calculated in alimony even if no children, and it was awarded and I was discharged before marriage?

First of all, you aren't using one attorney. She has one and you don't. Suggest you contact one immediately and at minimum have a...