Green card and not stable abusive husband

You have 2 separate issues, one is immigration and the other has to do with your marital relationship. So you need to consult with 2 lawyers.

Can I file for joint custody in lake county where I live or does it have to be in cook county where my sons father lives

There is no such thing as custody in Illinois any longer. If there is already a case pending, should most likely file where that case is. ...

CCan I file for full custody after the divorce has been settled?

There is no longer such a thing as custody in Illinois. There may or may not be a reason to ask to modify parenting time and you should discuss...

Child support no court order?

Not sure what you are asking except to say that it sounds like an immigration question. If there is no support order, you are not required to pay...

My child's father is threatening me about winter break what are my rights ?

If there is a parenting agreement on file, it controls how and to who parenting time is allocated. At this point, it is probably too late for him...

My husband's ex brought their son to court yesterday over back child support owed. Can she do that?

Why ask if someone can do something that has already been done. Judges don't like children being brought to court, but this child is an adult who...

Yes, you can file a motion to modify parenting time allocation and allocation of parenting responsibilities which is what we now call custody. As...

How can I get a levy remove from my joint account if the non custodian parent does not use it any more my funds were taken

You don't tell us how much money is involved nor do you say who took the money, the state or an individual and you also don't say when this...

In theory, yes you can. But judge would likely want to know what is with 5 year engagement.

New Judge or GAL? What is an appropriate reacquaintance period for a parent that has not seen their 2.5 yr old in 10 mos?

First of all, you should have an attorney who can answer your questions. If you don't have one, get one The father is not required to agree to...