Can my fiancé adopt my daughter when we get married?

Yes, he can. Call a lawyer and get some advice.

If you have a lawyer,you should ask him/her.

Visiting with grandparents

You can take your son to visit with your family. If you don't have representation, you should.

What to do when my ex won't agree to the pick up time when visitation ends.

You can call the police and show them the Order. You can also file a Motion to Compel Compliance and have the judge admonish your ex that he needs...

Paying for an attorney for my wife.

Based on these facts, probably not. Call a lawyer so he/she can give you more advice and direction.

I have concrete evidence my future ex-husband hacked into my email account/phone after I filed for divorce. Isn't this illegal?

This issue should be discussed with your lawyer. If you don't have one, you should consider hiring one.

Do I need to re-file for divorce out of Cook county?

Yes you can, if you truly can't find him. You may want to consult with a lawyer to help you navigate the court system.

Can ex tell that I cannot take my kids to a different church on my weekends with them?

Based on these facts, no, she can't tell you which church you can take your kids to.

How can I collect the back child support and current from the father? My state is behind on cases. He owes 25,0000.

Hire a lawyer and go after him. It's pretty straight forward.

What does it take to get a legal separation does spouse have to agree?

The question is whether you want a divorce. If you do, file for a divorce. Call a lawyer and get some solid advice.