It's probably a postcard status date set for 1:45 or 2:00. If so, don't worry about it.

If I had a house before I was married but put husbands name on it when refinanced is that home still mine in a divorce or is it?

It is now a marital asset and will be divided fairly.

Your best bet is to see a lawyer. For a relatively nominal fee, a lawyer can issue the subpoena and you can get the supporting documents you need...

Can I move out of my house without parental consent?

Have your grandma call a lawyer. And talk with your school administrators.

This is far too important an issue to be adequately addressed on this forum. If you have a lawyer, sit down with him/her to discuss. If you don't...

Your first priority is your daughter's safety. If your ex violated a court Order, you should contact a lawyer right away.

What rights do I have? Would it be possible to get full custody? What should I Do?

First and foremost, you need to establish paternity. Sit down and talk with a lawyer so you can get some solid advice.

My ex husband sold our marital home without my consent

Contact a lawyer to review the terms of your divorce decree.

What are my obligations to a disabled wife?

This is a loaded question. Your best bet is to sit down with a family law attorney to discuss your situation.

What type of motion should be filed?

Your best bet is to retain a local attorney. Based on what you wrote, the mother should have to reimburse you your attorney's fees.