Questions answered by David N. Schaffer

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What do I do now?

David's answer | Answered on October 27, 2015

Your question is VERY confusing. Is your LAWYER texting, FaceBooking, an SnapChatting you? You say you "decided to work it out." Then you say...

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If my parents have joint custody, but my father is incarcerated can I go live with my mother?

David's answer | Answered on October 27, 2015

If your father is incarcerated, then who are you living with now, if not your mother?

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He wants a divorce to save the relationship. Wants to stay together. Will settle for post nup. Does this sound shady?

David's answer | Answered on October 27, 2015

Consult a qualified, experienced family law attorney. Do NOT tell him you are going to see an attorney. You also need to get into therapy. ...

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Do I file for divorce in IL or AZ?

David's answer | Answered on October 27, 2015

Yes, you can file in Illinois and it would be most convenient for you, too. You did not mention if you and your wife have children. If so, and...

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Is emails from son's mother admissable in court when she used my computer and left emai page up?

David's answer | Answered on October 26, 2015

You mean "are" emails admissible? I would agree with my esteemed colleagues. My only additional comment is that it seems a bit sketchy how - or...

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How do we get a very bad mother follow the child custody agreement.

David's answer | Answered on October 21, 2015

Your car SHOULD run right, but if it doesn't, you go to a mechanic. The mother SHOULD follow the court order, but if she doesn't you take her to...

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I am a 16 year old (June 1999) and am pregnant by a 20 year old (February 1995) . Will he get arrested?

David's answer | Answered on October 21, 2015

It makes no difference at all if her parents are "ok with it" or "will not press charges." People do not file criminal complaints. The state's...

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Illinois: two simultaneous divorce cases filed, only one has been served. What are the consequences?

David's answer | Answered on October 21, 2015

More than answering your question, I am concerned why you did not ask your lawyer? You should have confidence in your lawyer and not be afraid to...

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Do I have to file a motion with the court to get the court to enforce a change of employment status decree?

David's answer | Answered on September 16, 2015

Yes. You should seek to find him in contempt for not following the court order. Get a good attorney and he/she may be able to get your ex to...

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How can I speed up divorce process?

David's answer | Answered on September 16, 2015

First, discuss your frustrations with your attorney. Eleven months is not THAT long for a contested divorce case. Are you getting temporary...

David N. Schaffer's Answers (355)

What do I do now?

If my parents have joint custody, but my father is incarcerated can I go live with my mother?

He wants a divorce to save the relationship. Wants to stay together. Will settle for post nup. Does this sound shady?

Do I file for divorce in IL or AZ?

Is emails from son's mother admissable in court when she used my computer and left emai page up?

How do we get a very bad mother follow the child custody agreement.

I am a 16 year old (June 1999) and am pregnant by a 20 year old (February 1995) . Will he get arrested?

Illinois: two simultaneous divorce cases filed, only one has been served. What are the consequences?

Do I have to file a motion with the court to get the court to enforce a change of employment status decree?

How can I speed up divorce process?