What do I need to do to get divorced?

She doesn't need to sign the divorce papers to start the process. You should hire a lawyer to file and then the case will move forward. If she...

My question can I still sue my wifes lover for destroy my marriage now after what happened that date my wife just file divorce

The best advice would be to move ahead with the divorce. Consult with some lawyers and hire the one you like.

Can we be granted a divorce with the intention of continuing to live together for financial reasons?

Yes that is possible. I have seen that as part of settlements before. You should consult with a lawyer to get this going.

You may be able to transfer it to DuPage. I agree that you should hire a lawyer as soon as you can. Many offer free consults.

Adoption or Custody which is best??

Adoption sounds like the way to go. You are going to want to start interviewing some lawyers to represent you on this.

Should I hire a lawyer? I know where he lives not where he works. How do I find out where he works if he is getting paid cash

Yes you should. Hiring a lawyer is always a good idea and avvo is a good place to start your search.

Do I have to file for a divorce if the marriage certificate was never signed and turned in?

This could turn into a very complicated situation. You need a good lawyer, and some good legal research done on your behalf to rectify this...

What are the laws on division of martial property "by equity" when filing a divorce in Illinois, any impact factors?

The court equitably divides property in accordance with the factors set forth in 750 ILCS 5/503. If you are going to be going through a divorce,...

Do I need permission to move out of state of there is not a visitation schedule in place?

Yes you still need a court order. If you don't have an attorney you should consider hiring one.

Would I stand a chance of being able to get custodial rights and not have to pay child support?

The best first step would be to bring in all your paperwork to a good lawyer for a consult for specific advice and guidance. It sounds like you...