How long does this take and more or less what would the cost to file the paper work be?

If everything is agreed upon then it should be pretty quick and easy. Start consulting with attorneys to get quotes on retainers.

Can I bring my son with me? Does he have rights if he has been in prison for so long? What can I do ? Can i counter this order

I agree in that this is far too complex to answer here. Bring all paperwork, motions and court orders to a lawyer's office to explore your options.

Should I go for adoption or custody

I agree that this is far too complex for an online forum. Set up a consult with a good family law attorney to discuss all your options.

When she divorce him, can she receive ex-spousal support from his social security with 8 years of marriage.

If he makes over 100k per year then yes she has a good chance of receiving maintenance, which is spousal support. She should certainly have a good...

Does my ex have to tell me when he takes my daughter to the doctor for an emergency if I have sole custody?

Probably not. If this was an emergency type situation the judge is not going to beat him up over it.

Do i file the judgement foe dissolution of marriage along with the petition and the dissolution packet?

You file the petition and the case sheet, but not a judgment. A judgment gets filed at the end of the case when everything has been finalized.

Getting Cervical Surgery told can't drive for 6-weeks, will need Assistance after it. In divorce seeking Alimony how would I

If a divorce is on file then move for temporary support. You should have an attorney representing you on this to deal with all of these issues...

How can I get information on my exes previous address so prove she is lying about ware she is living for court.

You need to file something with the court asap so that you can see your child. Hiring a good lawyer is the best route to go. You can also hire a...

Papers as in divorce papers? You may want to check with the clerk's office to confirm the time.

Can i go to court and ask the judge for contiunce becuase i didnt have time to find a good lawyer

If it is up for the first time the chances are good that the judge will give you some time to hire a lawyer. You should start your lawyer search...