Does my 14 year old daughter have to testify at the visitation hearing?

What courtroom? The judge should not allow this. I know some judges in DuPage that would be very upset at the very idea of bringing in a kid to...

Does my husband need to come to court if i want a divorce? He wants one as well but doesn't want to come to court.

If he signs all the required the documents and he is the respondent then you can do the prove up to finalize the case without his physical presence.

Can my 12 year old sons father get joint custody if he has walked out of my sons life numerous times?

I would recommend hiring a lawyer to protect your interests in this situation. If he is driving under the influence with your son in the car there...

I HAVE NOWHERE TO LIVE MY HUSBAND WALKED OUT ON ME AN MY 2 KIDS

Contact a lawyer right away. You need to get into court and get support set up asap.

Post divorce.....Is there any other options other than lowering the price of the house???

I would need to see what the divorce decree says specifically about the home.

Can my ex deduct college expenses that I paid or can my child claim herself?

I would need to take a look at the divorce decree. You should talk to a lawyer in person.

Depends on the judge, what county is this in?

I live in IL, my ex lives AR. For custody issues, do I need a lawyer that is licensed in both states?

Where do the kids live? Where was the divorce finalized?

Hire an attorney and file the divorce. There is no benefit in waiting for him to file first.

Is there a reasonable chance that I could win a child custody modification as a father in Illinois?

Talk to a lawyer in person. I would need to know more. It is easier to change custody if you are 2 years past the date the custody judgment was...