Can I take my ex back to court to get part of his pension, that he never revealed during our divorce proceedings?

Talk to a lawyer in person. I would need to know more info about what happened during the discovery phase of the case.

How do I force my soon to be ex wife to move our girls closer to me?

I need a lot more information. Was there an order allowing her to move to Ariz with your kids?

My daughter will soon be going off to college and I am not sure when my husband is required to stop paying child support.

Where do you live now? You can try to enroll the judgment in the county where you and the child reside and then file a petition to have your ex...

If a divorce petitioner e-files a motion, pro se, as "not Spindled', when would/ should the judge and or judges clerk, get it?

I am going to dump on you for being pro se. Hire an attorney and get this done the right way.

How do I collect maintenance and retroactive child support?

File a petition for rule in the state that has jurisdiction. If you get a judgment against him then you may need to enroll it in the state he...

Can child support be reimbursed if child is not living with parent?

Hire a lawyer and file a motion to terminate child support, generally these motions are only granted retroactively to the date of filing. But you...

My ex-husband went to court without notifying me and had my spousal support reduced. How do I see a judge without a lawyer?

I would not recommend representing yourself. Consult with a new lawyer and see if he or she will work with you on fees.

If a judge recuses herself from a custody case, is she allowed to sign any petition or order that is submitted to the court?

No she should not be doing this. Once she is recused she should not be doing anything on the case.

Divorce

I would highly recommend hiring an attorney. Go talk to some in person. Many offer free consults.

Do you have an attorney? If not you should probably hire one. I would have to see the actual orders to answer your question.