What legal right should I do?

Report this to the police right away and set up a consult with a family law attorney about the custody issue to discuss the specifics.

I understand your frustration. I would recommend setting up a consult with a family law attorney to discuss the details of your case so perhaps...

How to get the divorce petition filed to another county dropped or transferred to my county?

Yes you definitely need an attorney to file a motion to transfer the case. More facts would be needed to put together this motion and/or discuss...

Would I be liable for back child support if my ex denied me a paternity test?

The judge will probably order a DNA test if paternity is contested. If you don't have a lawyer you should hire one. Many offer free consults.

Can it be done?

I think you are asking about a divorce. Yes it can be done quickly if everyone is in agreement with the terms of the divorce. You should set up a...

How much will it cost to get divorced. Have one daughter soon to be 18years old been separated since 2004 .

That depends on more factors. You should set up a consult with a lawyer to discuss the specifics and retainers. Many lawyers offer free consults.

Guardianship vs adoption

You should be talking to your attorney. If you attorney isn't responsive consider getting a new lawyer.

What r my rights the house is in his name because I am married to someone else we have 3 kid together lived together for 15 year

No ownership rights. Set up a free consult with a lawyer to help clean this situation up. You should be getting child support.

Should I get an attorney so late in the game?

Yes I highly recommend that you hire a lawyer. The process is way too difficult without one. Many offer free consults.

Illinois Support Laws Changing?

There has been talk of an income shares model being accepted but nothing is final as of yet.