I am scared. Should i pay this civil claims letter demanding $500.

Don't pay it. It has no affect on your criminal charges, is unlikely to be followed up on by target, and puts your name into a retailer database.

Can my ex-husband and I write up our own visitation and child support order and have notarized instead of going to court?

There is no reason why you and your ex cannot work out an agreement between yourselves. As long as you both abide by it or are able to work out...

The DuPage county States attorney's office does not offer supervision on any dui. Their policy is to always ask for a conviction on all dui cases....

My crazy ex has gotten a restraining order against me.

You have not been properly served. Saying that, it's not impossible that the process server won't lie and claim to have properly served you. You...

Will i still be charged? Also first offense can i avoid jail time for probation and fines?

If it's really been 4 years and no charges have been filed, then you got lucky or caught a break. Statute of limitations have expired.

Can I sue my brother in law?

Anyone can sue anyone for anything. The question is could you prevail and if you do could you collect? The answer to both these questions sound...

You can't marry a first cousin in Illinois. You are fine marrying a first cousin once removed.

Can I be denied a professional license today for non violent crimes over 3 years old and after meeting all court obligations and

You can seek to obtain a certificate of rehabilitation. While not clearing your record, it can allow you to obtain certain professional licenses.

So her living with her mom at 17 almost 18 is she legal to have sex and me as a 35 year not in trouble even she live with parent

Age of consent in Illinois is 17. So, legally you are fine. If a 35 year old had sex with my 17 year old daughter he would find himself some...

I'm 35 and my girlfriend is 17 can I get in trouble for having sex with her she still lives with her parents

Completely legal. Potentially dangerous if she has a father but completely legal.