Can I file an adoption ourselves?

Yes, you could do it yourself, however the consequences of making a mistake would impact you and your granddaughter. I agree with the above, make...

How can I prove it was her? Could this help my case if she is the one who did this?

You would benefit form legal representation. The mother is trying to distract you and the court with irrelevant and immature antics. Joint custody...

Is it reasonable to drop weekday visits & ask for weekend? Rotating long then short? Ex. Fri-Sun 6-6, next weekend Fri-Sat 6-6?

It could be reasonable, but it is really fact specific and each individual situation is different. You should discuss with an attorney the...

What can I do about this? Or how can I address this in court? Or can it even be addressed?

Generally an agreement states that the other parent is allowed reasonable communication. Your position is that it goes beyond reasonable, and it...

Is my mother now destitute or does she have claim to all businesses as she is the legal wife and not the mistress?

Yikes, yes your mother needs to seek legal counsel quickly. Their informal arrangements need formality at this point or it could turn into a much...

A divorce summons is not a date certain. Once you are served you have 30 days to answer or otherwise plead. I suggest you seek legal counsel.

What do I need to do (forms) to collect the $1200? Is there a minimum amount of $ or time that has to go by before I can do so?

You should look into filing with the state. They will do support enforcement for free and have great resources, which get results (although it may...

Can I if I am 18 move out of my parents house if I am still on high school. They and a police officer said I have to stay.

At 18, you are legally an adult. Your parent would need some court order to exercise control and power over you. Good, bad, ugly, foolish, or...

Can my son refuse to go back to live and I file a modification of court order based on him being left back with me for 6 months

yes, this is an issue you could bring before the court; however, I suggest you seek local legal counsel, as such a change and the facts described...

Can I take my ex-husband to court for contempt of court for not abiding by the divorce decree which states he was to refinance?

Yikes. That is a difficult situation. Willfully failing to follow a court order is contempt, the fight is generally over the willful nature of the...