Why can't I collect my full SS retirement amount just because I also have a medical retirement from a government position?

You are in a similar position as many teachers who pay into a different system and received a separate system. It may be possible to get some ss...

How does my social security money work?

Any monies designated for you must be used for your benefit. Your mother must act as a representative payee or agent for your support and well being.

There numerous instances where an ex-spouse can use your ss number. For instance, under certain circumstances, they can obtain benefits from your...

How or what can I do to be the payee or have the person of my choosing? Social security keeps denying every person I trust.

Generally a representative payee should have been assigned at the time of approval of the benefits of the minor. If you as the mother have been...

How long do you have to wait for arbitration if the company postponed the original date is due process a factor

Postponements occur in court as well as in arbitration. If you feel that you are being taken advantage of, you need to get your counsel to push...

Binding arbitration must be set forth in the contract or by argument of all the parties. You may heave to file partition suit or perhaps request...

Binding arbitration

You should retain your own counsel to review the employment agreement. You still should have the right to make a filing at the EEOC

Is this a fight I can win, or should I take the settlement which would seal my records?

You need to speak to outside counsel before you get "pressured" to accept a settlement that you believe is not in your best interest.

Can a judge stay my case on his own without motion from other party?

A Judge can stay a case. You should obtain an attorney to find out why this has been done and see if the case can proceed.

What's the easiest way to get my lovely fiancee to the US?

You can apply for a fiancé visa which can take months. Once she arrives, you can then get married and file for adjustment of status to get her...