My mum has been told her divorce papers from her first marriage can not be found though the divorce was over 30yrs.

the court clerk of the county in which she was divorced should be able to get her a copy. there may be a fee for that.

What can I do legally?

legally you can and may hire a lawyer. if she has what used to be called custody, you may have reason to do a motion to change that to...

unfortunately the family cannot do anything about this. the wife is the one in charge. we cannot tell you why she prefers cremation to burial....

Do I loose right to obtain son's child support if I did not contest or respond when served with divorce summons?

the state in which married is irrelevant to any divorce. get a copy of the divorce papers from the court clerk of the court in which the divorce...

Will a turnover order and citation to a child's father employer affect child support and daycare orders?

it should not effect your notice to withhold income for support. as to his paying half daycare, if he has no funds to do so, yu do not get paid....

if the child is not with either parent, you may file for guardianship or custody. the former is easier to get. i recommend that. you must give...

Can I ask my son's paternal grandparents to sign a document stating their time with my child will not be shared by his father?

yes, you can ask but they need not obey. what is proper communication? who decides? neither he nor they have a legal right to any time yet....

How valid is the morality clause in a JPA especially when the kids are telling their dad his actions are making them uncomfortab

it is a valid court order and must be obeyed. if he refuses to say he will, then do a motion to enjoin him from taking the gf on the trip.

What do I need to do?

you could do a motion to ask the court to order the out of state child back to illinois. you could do a motion to modify child support. not...

How can I stop my ex wife from using to court to keep me away from my son

you defend her petitions and you file your own for visit abuse.