Just got divorce papers!!! been married for 10 years what are my rights??

More information is needed to answer your questions and this probably is not the place to do it. You need to retain the services of an attorney.

Can I file for more visitation with my 4yr old daughter?????

You are certainly entitled to file a petition for additional parenting time and to set parameters on when the mother cannot be with the child. You...

Change of heart?

No. You can dismiss the case. Or you can ask for a continuance. Or you can ask that the case be put on the reconciliation calendar. It is not too...

Can i move to Texas without parents approval at 18 ?

Yes you can. You are an emancipated adult.

One advantage is that it keeps the case alive if you decide to dismiss your case. The case would continue based on his counter-petition.

Is it possible to have child support decreased ?

Child support is always modifiable based on a substantial change in circumstances. You do run the risk of having it increased if the support for...

A petition to modify child support should have been filed based on a substantial change in circumstances. Support will not be lowered without one.

Can a 17 yr old and a 19 yr old be in a relationship if they really love each other?

It sounds ok.

Has an attorney ever represented one spouse in a divorce and then the other spouse at a later date?

NO.

My alimony was figured by gross income. Can I ever get this adjusted to net income? My divorce was in Will County, IL.

Your maintenance is probably based on gross income due to the tax implications. Child support is based on net income.