What would happen to a 22 year old dude for dating a 16 year old girl

Dude probably should date a chick closer to his own age, but aside from the scorn of her parents, it is not illegal.

Can I sue Dakota County, Minnesota?

Child support is paid for the full month in which child support terminates. That is when the child turns 18 and graduates from high school.

You can be arrested or cited in another county for a crime occurring elsewhere. It is far more likely an officer will show up at your door or call...

Do I go?

That depends. Is the current court hearing on the same matter and was it re-scheduled from the last missed appearance? if so, it is unlikely. ...

What might happen now?

It is more likely you would receive a citation in the mail or receive a call to make a statement.

I am currently on felonly probation with a private ankle monitor can the states attorney also access my wherabouts??

Removing the monitor is prohibited and would be a violation. If the monitor is cut or opened, it would alert the company. It can be tracked.

My lawyer talked to the DA and said I will be offered pre trail. How long does it take to receive your letter in the mail.

Only your attorney can answer that. It would depend on the county, the program and more.

He must have some verification of attendance. he can try to explain the violation to the court, but without some documentation, he has a risk of jail.

Will I go to jail for first time class A felony? Shoplifting/employee

You would be wise to at least speak with private counsel. This is more than a petty theft since you were an employee.

If there is a 17 year old and i kissed and i am 19 can i be charged as a sex offender for the rest of my life ?

Not likely unless the kiss was non consensual.