Your arrest is not the reason the dog needs to be fixed. Your arrest is how you violating the ordinance came to their attention.

I suggest you contact child services (county) and hire an attorney. There are an infinite number of issues that may need to be addressed.

You don't provide much information, but a petition to end the guardianship my be appropriate. It is likely, however, there are other matters that...

Since the officer doesn't do this with every individual she approaches, it is worth determining why you. Undoubtedly, she will have a reason.

Giving false information to police is a crime. Please see: https://www.revisor.mn.gov/statutes/cite/609.506

Apparently, they don't believe it's a legitimate purpose. You don't state what is your legitimate purpose. Ultimately, a judge/jury will determine...

Some inferences can be made from your post, but there are too many unknowns to provide any guidance. Perhaps a consultation is needed.

Your wife will need to make other arrangements (as approved ) if AA meetings are court ordered (e.g. remote.)

Did the defunct corporation or anyone else respond to the complaint? An attorney needs to know exactly what's happening in the case to properly...

Yes, the child's preference will be considered by the court. It will be but one factor. Be careful not to place too much weight on it.