Can I get our parenting time order changed, if so what do I do?

You can motion the court to modify parenting time. As counsel stated, this will be based on a best-interests analysis.

My husband has kicked me and my 3 children out of our home and has asked for a divorce , he has accused me of cheating

If you can't get a lawyer, you may want to go to your local law library and do your best to research law and procedure and make the arguments you...

My husband cheated. If he admits to his act, under oath, can I divorce him without waiting a year? We have a minor child.

His admission would have to be in court or on something you could admit as evidence at court to be useful to you.

Is it necessary to involve lawyers in the separation process?

Necessary? No. Often a very good idea though.

Can I file agains the x wife of my husband she is ensulting me and I telling bad name of me and try to scares me to deport

You probably don't have a claim to sue for what you've described.

Question about certified divorce decree, divorce certificate, and divorce verification letter

Try court administration for any paperwork related to the divorce, including certified copies.

My husband wont send me our joint 2013 tax return for me to sign and submit. We are going thru a divorce. I'm not employed.

I don't see a question here, but with all of these issues, my best advice would be to find a way to get a lawyer to help you with this.

I was divorced from my ex wife in NY 8 years ago and she was entitled to half my pension and no alimony. She remarried

I agree with counsel. I suggest contacting your original lawyer. He or she will be in the best position to answer this question for you.

It sounds like the man would have a non-marital claim on the property. What exactly each spouse would be entitled to would require an examination...

NJ child support

I suggest contacting a family law attorney in New Jersey as their state laws will determine what to do.